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Louise, 43 from Steyning, West Sussex

Quality over quantity, someone with morals and standards. I'm not looking for one night stands, or late night hook ups, but a bit of excitement with someone that's highly charged on a regular basis would suit me well, as I'm a passionate women that loves the intensity that can be created when the chemistry is right. Good connection, good conversation, and someone that's on the same wavelength. I enjoy fun nights out and intimate nights in. I'm looking for someone fairly local so that spontinaety is possible, it's good to be able to act on impulse x

Beth, 48 from Sands End, London

looking for friends with benefits regular F-Buddy PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU DO NOT LIVE IN OR NEAR BRISTOL!

Simon, 53 from Stratton St Margaret, Wiltshire

Imnew 2 this I like long walks going out with friends playing golf watching most sport and the odd drink

Brattyslut, 25 from Bramhall, Greater Manchester

I am looking for a dominant. Someone who will tie me up and make me cum repeatedly for them, even when I cannot take it any more. I love BDSM and I am desperate for a strong, handsome male to take absolute control of my body and my mind. Treat me like a princess, fuck me like a porn star! A lot of men on here seem to think they are a dominant because they like to have control in the bedroom. A dominant is not someone who can fuck hard whilst pulling hair and occasionally spanking my ass....

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