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Northguy, 36 from Middlesbrough, Cleveland

Hi, looking for fun and friendship with like minded people who have similar interests as me !!

Louise, 47 from Westgate On Sea, Kent

I am a bubbly, interesting, pretty, very curvy, lady, I have a very good sense of humour and I have been told one of my main assets is my smile I love a enjoy a good laugh and prefer simple things in life, as I am pretty busy generally between my work and home life, but will make time for the right friendship I have many interests, but one of my favourite pastimes is chilling with good company at a pub on a summer evening with a chilled drink or having a nice casual meal I am not a...

Laura, 31 from Selsdon, London

Looking for someone to spoil me in all areas! I enjoy good conversation and good company and good sex. Lets have good time!

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