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Shell, 37 from Selsdon, London

Looking for one regular partner to connect with on a regular basis but no emotional ties , please none in relationships/married. I'm a attractive women just wanting some regular male company with right person

Colin, 57 from Ware, Hertfordshire

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Louise, 37 from Salford, Greater Manchester

Hi gents , I'm a genuine kind fun loving intelligent Lady I work hard , I want to also play hard is thair any Real Real Men on here that can handle a real woman , No time wasters please or boys who have no clue I need real men , talk is cheap I have no time for Little boys who want a few pictures of my double Ds just to have a quick w**k looking at pics of naked woman , talk is cheap . Please only reply if it's a real woman that your looking to...

Lynnie, 50 from Letchworth, Hertfordshire

single woman whom looking maybe for the right person or maybe just bit of fun,,been on here before and had loads of time wasters,,so if i dont message you then you understand,,,yes that is my pic and im no fake person,,im using my real name but wont put face pic up

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