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Alex, 20 from Penwortham, Lancashire

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Su, 47 from Twyford, Berkshire

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Sarah, 53 from Shacklewell, London

I am a slim and may I say attractive female. On here because my husband's ongoing fantasy is to watch me having sex with other attractive men... Well, I'm game...! This may seem snobbish! But we are an articulate, intelligent and well dressed couple and expect the same from any prospective candidates. Though please note we are a mature couple. So no youngsters please. Our ideal type would be a clean, good looking professional man with a good body and endowment. I do like to dress up and have plenty of naughty outfits... Latex, Lingerie etc. Any play will...

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