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Lis, 40 from Iver, Buckinghamshire

We are looking for some extra fun with someone that can join me and my hubby... Don't mind if male or female... Both every open minded... I DO NOT FUCK ON MY OWN!!!! Please don't get shitty or rude if I don't reply in your time frame... as u can image we get hundreds of messages I will get round to answering

Dave, 35 from Brighton, East Sussex

Here for fun x x x

Kayla, 37 from Northfield, West Midlands

I'm here to have fun with a select few. I like it hard and wet, I like it slow and sensual. PRINCIPLES : I have no interest in married men , not here to be dominated nor disrespected , and with all due respect my asshole is an exit point and not a cock entrance. Lastly, personal details like my phone number and home address are not at my disposal to share . If you have trouble with articulation and can only communicate with symbols and or monosyllables , kindly refrain from contacting me. DESIRES : Oral till your...

Rita, 48 from Bracknell, Berkshire

JUST TO LET YOU KNOW I AM NOT LOOKING FOR FUN........i am a single mum of 5 not tiny babies so dont be scared i can get out lol I was a childrens residential worker which I worked full time. I alsos worked as a children support worker p/t i like football,pool,pubs,clubs,music,dancin, meals out/in, and love to snuggle up indoors watchin a movie im 4'11 size 16/18 so wot u could call curvy or round lol (i like to see it as im a real woman) no fake bits : THIS IS PERSONAL PREFFERANCE OF MINE ONLY CAUCASTION/WHITE MEN...

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