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Sarah, 35 from Coaley, Gloucestershire

I haven't put up a picture but happy to send one. I'm blonde, blue eyed, 5'6", average build / slightly curvy. I'm not looking for a relationship. I work hard play hard. I'm looking for a friend with benefits ! Discreet fun wanted ! I'm not looking for a toy boy - nor an older man. I like a nice body, muscular, a sense of humour I'm a sucker for a hard back massage ! I'm not looking to bed hop or a three some: I would like a genuine guy for a discreet relationship. Maybe the impossible is...

Willow, 32 from Upper Catshill, Hereford And Worcester

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Rob, 35 from Oxley, West Midlands

Like to meet a nice but naughty lady.

Horny, 47 from Alloa, Central

Hi I'm 47 looking to have chats possible discreet meets can accommodate would also be interested in any bi curious female

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