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Norman, 64 from Coleshill, Warwickshire

Hi All you sexy women out there i am 64 just want sex no commitment unless we really click age from 18 to 70 must be local to bimingham thanks Norman x

Georgie, 45 from Gillingham, Kent

I am trysexual - as in I will try anything once and if I like it I will do it again and again and again. Like all things to do with bums and anal - love fucking men up the arse and also being buggered myself. To spank or to be spanked, that is the question - I don't mind, either way is fine with me ;-) I administer my own enemas, if anyone would like to do it for me that would be a first. Will only reply to proper messages, not winks or anything. Can only do...

Kate, 46 from Shotgate, Essex

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I have a great personality, but u don't want the boring stuff lol. I love sex end of x

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