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Rose, 23 from Croydon, London

Helo Ms Rose here. I hope you are okay. New to this for the moment. Would like to meet up with someone in london. However i dont mind travelling if there are coaches to the destination. Anything else say hello

Nigel, 60 from Compton Bassett, Wiltshire

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