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Suzanne, 42 from South Tottenham, London

I am single and looking to meet a guy for friendship and regular meets . I love to give and receive sensual oral sex , kisses and lots of Tlc and enjoy the pleasures of a mans naked body xx if you want sensual sexy adult fun message me x

Louise, 21 from Exeter, Devon

Submissive seeking dominant master only.. No vanilla sex I am looking to serve a strict master to a high standard and follow every instruction given to please him. Also interested in gang bangs as long as my master approves of this and arranges it himself for assurance. I do not want to be virtually controlled, I want a master to come and control me in reality on regular meet ups and then leave it at the door and go back to our normal lives separately inbetween.. send me a message if you're dominant enough.. older men are preferred

Bblue, 44 from West Molesey, Surrey

Professional lady looking for a regular casual partner rather than multiples ones. Someone who is respectful, discreet and with a sense of humour. Must be non-smoker, clean. Not into gimmicks, just don't want all the hassle of a relationship without missing out on great intimacy.

Ryan, 40 from Oxted, Surrey

Hi all after a bit of fun. Give me bell if you'd like to know me..

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