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Wendy, 48 from Ruddington, Nottinghamshire

Hello..I'm looking for local to Nottingham. .. not interested in Web cam ... any questions please ask.... oh n to avoid embarrassment I'm a size 18 ..

Maxine, 54 from Southampton, London

I'm a widow looking for one to one, I love going out pubbing it and for meals, going for walks in the countryside and I love cozying up at home watching a good movie on the TV. I'm looking for a guy that wants to get to know me inside and outside the bedroom

S, 54 from Southampton, London

Well, having been on here for a few months now, I thought I should update my profile. I've found that I prefer guys who are younger than me BUT if I fancy you, then age is irrelevant. I'm looking for NSA fun but would really enjoy getting to know you because friends make better lovers. If we were to click the I could be open to perusing a relationship but that's not at the forefront of my mind atm. I'd love to be taken out to dinner/ lunch or for a few drinks and treated like a lady. I...

Jonathan, 57 from Penrith, Cumbria

Looking for my all in one, my friend, my lover and my Princess. A lass who wants to be spoilt cos she is worth it I want too belong to you! If I can't have my Princess can I have a "young sugar babe.....please.....someone too spoil". Playing safe or not I don't mind.

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