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Cliff, 49 from Evesham, Hereford And Worcester

Hello lady's looking fun am your man

Sian, 24 from Leeds, West Yorkshire

Hi im a young(ish) professional who works hard and like to play hard. Lover of cliches can you tell? I'm a fairly busy person, so please bear with me. I love rugby union but since moving to Leeds I'm being swayed to the dark side of League. I'm as open as it comes so no question is too out there. Although I appreciate that you may have your reasons of which I am not getting into, I don't do cheating so no married men or ones in a relationship please.

Karen, 66 from Bath, Avon

I am a very out going person who like to enjoy life as I lost my husband in January this year after a very long illness and now I find life is to short when I lost the love of my life and I know he would have wanted me to enjoy my life again

Saskia, 53 from Finchley Road, London

Looking for fun and cuddles and nothing serious...and i love a man that knows how to kiss x I find a man with a good command of English an incredible turn on..intelligence is very sexy..i like to be intrigued.. I am a published authoress....and am no dumb blonde.. My criteria is high...can you achieve it ? Oh and one last thing...please do not send me a photo of your c**k... as the brain is the sexiest organ there is...

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