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Sandy, 49 from Loudwater, Buckinghamshire

Hello and thanks for stopping by :-) I'm looking for one regular friend with benefits for fun without drama. If that's what you're looking for too - then don't be shy, say 'Hi' Ideally you'll be married and want your very own mistress to spoil - in return I promise discretion and all the fun without any humdrum... If we click here then ideally a 'no pressure' meet to see if we have that elusive spark... then if we do?... Sorry - I hate to be negative but to save yours and my time I do have a few...

Magnum, 49 from Southampton, London

Hey thanks for popping buy, In the meantime feel free to say hi and chat :) Ideally I'm looking to have fun times with and to make each other feel good, marital status not an issue :) am very discreet if need be girls xx 100 full of meat a . fun friendly caring loving understanding outgoing open minded guy after some fun . any naughty girls out there looking for some fun and can acom or travel . this guy won't let you down

Bomvinho, 31 from Southampton, London

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Sarah, 43 from Didcot, Oxfordshire

Right I'm looking for the right man that's into DOM relationship and that knows what he's doing in the bedroom and that likes to go out and have a laugh and go away for wkends I'm not interested in married men or one night stands I'm not here to be used but I do like that control so if ur interested get intouch but no time wasters. I do boxing to keep fit and go clubbing now and then I also like a nice walk along the beach.

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