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Jade, 31 from Longbenton, Tyne And Wear

Hi I'm jade i can travel or accommodate looking for men aged between 30-55 no timewasters plz or anyone after money thanks also if u message me and I don't reply no need send me same message over n over sorry but getting that many messages can't reply everyone x

Andy, 49 from Charmouth, Dorset

Just looking for casual meetings, hopefully leading to more. Please message me for anything else you want to know.

Laura, 35 from Storrington, West Sussex

Friendly, caring and sensual lady looking for someone to keep me warm

Sarah, 45 from Brymbo, Clwyd

Hi I'm Sarah I'm a cross dresser, so please read before you get in touch, I'm looking for fun with men, it might be your first time or your just curious or this is what your looking for, if it is get in touch and we can get something going xx

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