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Nieco, 35 from Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire

Easy going...fun loving person looking for a specific type of man who is interested in having a safe nsa sexual arrangment (regular) without drama. No lovey dovey crap, just nsa sex, I do not want a relationship - so married guys are welcome, as long a you take care of ur side of things and no crap comes my way. I am direct, professional, career orientated, a workaholic, im attractive, single (never married), size 8, black hair, brown eyes, good body, confidant and have a very high sex drive. Absolutally NO anal and NO pain! I like men between...

Sherrie, 34 from Southborough, London

Horny black Caribbean girl looking for some fun. Ideal person must be non judgmental and up for a laugh, I'm not looking for time wasters who are all talk and no action. Yes I am married, so therefore I cannot accommodate. My interest other than being a perv is that I'm 100 nerd/geek lol so I'm into gaming, sci-fi and reading. So in order for us to meet we must a little bit in common as I'm looking a friend with benefits. Thanks for reading guys

Jane, 65 from Scunthorpe, Lincolnshire

A bit about me. First and foremost, I DO NOT SEE MARRIED OR ATTATCHED ME ... EVER. If you're in your 20s/30s don't bother messaging cos i'll not reply. I have tattoo's so if you don't like tattoo's on a woman don't send me abusive text telling me so, keep your opinions to yourself, I wouldn't message you telling you how ugly you are as I don't like to hurt peoples feelings, so don't hurt mine. I like to fish once or twice a week , it would be nice to find someone with the same interest . I...

Carl, 40 from Bedford, Bedfordshire

Hi new to all this not sure what i want or expect i am open minded .i can be a bit shy to start with but who knows .

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