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Karmel, 25 from Brixton, London

Hi im new here i like white men only and taller than 5ft10..

Erica, 49 from Southend On Sea, Essex

Please no married men....sorry. One man to explore and have fun with No strings clean fun sought. Daytime preferred.

Kar, 34 from Londesborough, Humberside

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William, 45 from Flemington, Borders

Hello I am will single slim fit mature man here for fun.no picture no chat or fun off line..do not send me email address or mags to other web sites.if you want to meet will be in a public place like a pub .or somewhere in glasgow city centre or in Cambuslang or Rutherglen. I love a drink but would rather not cause i am a weak drinker usually.on my knees after 3 lol.don't smoke..love meal and the cinema but we are all here for fun so if you wish know more come ask.I work hard so I am...

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