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Tony, 38 from Haydons Road, London

World traveler always on the go. But would like to meet people who will show me around and have a good time while at it. Would like to have some friends in the UK to play with. I will accommodate and take care of all expenses.

Lucy, 26 from Shrewsbury, Shropshire

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Sami, 24 from Southend On Sea, Essex

Here for some fun Not your typical girl Don't ask me Wierd stuff I'm literally having loads of emails so here's a few answers!! I don't like it 'up the bum' I won't respond if you constantly message me, bit Wierd tbh Yes my pics are real

Amy, 20 from Southend On Sea, Essex

I am desperate to fuck. I love being spanked hard and thrown around. I've never had an orgasm except from when I play with myself... NSA only

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