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Steve, 40 from Southend On Sea, Essex

I'm 6ft athletic body which I look after ,dress well ,always clean and smell nice ,good n healthy with a good manual job, I don't claim to be perfect as we all have our own faults but I am just a nice genuine guy....... love Giving oral pleasure...... I try not to take things to seriously as life's far to short for that so just looking to have some naughty fun.in and out of the bedroom........ but never play without a large degree of trust,understanding,communication and respect for the lady I'm with..... Hope to find a regular play mate...

Jayne, 39 from Huntingdon, Cambridgeshire

39 year old single mother of 5 . Fairly attractive with come to bed eyes ( or so I have been told ) .

Zara, 39 from Sandgate, Kent

I'm a bit of a naughty girl, love dressing up. Love male attention. But I'm also interested in women

Latinasweet, 22 from Norbury, London

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