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We need more men in Southgate who want to be a fuck buddy. It seems Southgate has more than the average number of cougars looking for sexy young guys.

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Jay, 46 from Birkdale, Merseyside

Just looking to see if this is for me No Married Men No guys that swing both ways No 20 odd year olds and sorry I'm only attracted to black guys so no abuse needed thankyou

David, 72 from Shanklin, Isle Of Wight

Hi girls, I am a mature man looking for fun with you, in the bedroom or wherever.

Dizzie, 47 from Southgate, London

Isn't it funny how things turn out?... Who woulda thought it?! Curious! Looking to help fulfil your fantasies - and mine!

Jules, 48 from Southgate, London

I'm a big girl that might (and thats a big might) be tempted to a bit of fun I'm in a relationship and happy but love the buzz from some harmless flirtations so I'm always happy to chat

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