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Rute, 40 from St James, London

I am looking for a good looking guy that looks after himself, disease free, muscular and with nice and big cock, that knows how to please a girl. I want to have a drink and see if we feel attract to each other, I am looking for someone to meet up regularly and have good fucks. if you are the guy send me a text/wink.

James, 36 from St James, London

Im an easy going guy that gets on with everyone and likes to have fun.

Terry, 42 from Kirby Corner, West Midlands

Hi my name is Terry and im a bubbly large build girl with a gd personality, im pretty easy going, with a strong mind and here to look for male friendship in to having a laugh, chat and possibly some fun times. Im here for discreet times and plz no sex pests or weirdos or u will b told where to go!! Im not into threesomes, or couples just normal light fun if possible..xx mesge me guys and i get back to u as quick as poss..see ya..xc

Emma, 37 from Hengoed, Mid Glamorgan

I'm looking for a man or a woman for fun times with. I don't want commitment.

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