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Favor, 63 from Bason Bridge, Somerset

Favor has yet to add her profile.

Adam, 33 from Leicester, Leicestershire

Just looking for a good time :)

Gianna, 49 from Rutherglen, Borders

Hi. I'm a professional lady with a taste for the excitement of younger men. I'm totally discrete and expect the same but won't meet married or those in long term relationships. I have a younger friend at the moment... would you like to join us? Got a few fantasies I'd like to try out. If you are interested, get in touch for a chat. x

Shelley, 49 from Ashton-Under-Lyne, Greater Manchester

Hiya , I'm a single mum so can't accommodate,a working single mum I may add. I work nights so don't get much me time, anyway I'm looking for one night stands , I had a FWB who went and got himself a girlfriend so I'm back to square one, must be single x I don't need your either, been burnt on here before ain't gonna fall for it no more

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