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Lisa, 35 from St Paul's Cray, London

Unique in a word I'm a one off open minded girl looking for lots of fun and new experiences with lots of laugh's along the way.... iv just got out of a few 16yr relationship so I just wanna have fun! !!

Stuart, 57 from Alvaston, Derbyshire

I am looking for cheeky chats, light hearted fun and with the right people no strings fun can accommodate am free most of the time. Like most things so if you are interested message me.

Sophie, 24 from Brampton, Derbyshire

Just looking for someone that I can get along with an have a Friends with benefits type Situation with.

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