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Ron, 66 from Plymouth, Devon

66, single and very horny. Not looking for a serious relationship just casual fun but like to get to know you and be friends, intelligent conversation is essential. Interests: sex, music, going to gigs festivals, sex, wildlife, photography , walking, sex, travelling to wild remote places, I have a large well equipped caravan which helps with all of that, also like travelling to meet and have fun with people I meet here. Very open minded, will try anything, and have tried all sorts but not into anything that involves giving or receiving pain (maybe just a little).

Sue, 53 from St. Albans, London

Hi, I have a very high sex drive. The more sex the better. Looking for one man for regular sex.

Janis, 42 from Brentford, London

I'm recently separated and want a little excitement in my new single life

Shebaa, 55 from Wythall, Hereford And Worcester

Hi there I am looking for passionate loving erotic man that would treat me like a his women look after me I love to be pampered it's be a long time since I have been with a man x so looking for a man that can be my regular lover maybe even become my partner never know x I am single

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