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Simon, 44 from Stratford, London

Genuine guy looking for some fun and laughs (and great sex, of course!) Have a very high sex drive and would like to meet a sexy girl for NSA fun and laughs. I tend towards dominant/kinky but have a gentle side too. I'm definitely up for meets and not into endless chat. I don't have a particular type but hopefully my playmate would be a little younger than me, pretty face, nice legs and bum, who is easy-going, bubbly and fun (with, perhaps, a kinky side too).

Fleur, 54 from Surbiton, London

Need a spare cock - can you help? My partner wants to watch me play/lick/suck and fuck a stranger. Wet at the thought.

Karen, 54 from Surbiton, London

Hello x just want a good time with or without husband there,he is happy if I am xx

N, 44 from Surbiton, London

MILF: tick. horny divorcee: tick. Love sex: tick. Tall: tick. Men must be 6ft and above. Open minded and very touchy feely. Also interested in meeting a gentle woman to pleasure and explore, and be pleasured by. FIY: Winks, or Favourites, without a message, go straight to trash. So do empty profiles.

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