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Little black books are so passé. And who wants a little book when you could have a whole adult social network to choose from. My Bed or Yours is your modern little (well, massive) black book of adult sex contacts. The idea is simple: Men and women who are looking for some casual sexual fun sign up, find someone that tickles their fancy and arrange to get together. We provide you with profiles and pictures and advanced search tools - like searching for younger women in Sutton all you have to do is say hi and take it from there.

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Dreamer, 41 from Clapham, Bedfordshire

Looking to fulfil my fantasy and have a 3sum, so if a couple of guys fancy a BBW to do what they want with then please let me know

Thom, 37 from Bristol, Avon

I'm a 37 year old guy. I rely like licking girls all over, n I mean every single inch of you! I have 3 places I love to lick the most! 10 points to anyone who guesses all 3! The prize is me showing you my 3 favourite places n how good I am at licking! Looking for some fun whilst looking for " the one"! If you are interested give me a shout n we can hook up!

Jules, 48 from Sutton, London

I'm a big girl that might (and thats a big might) be tempted to a bit of fun I'm in a relationship and happy but love the buzz from some harmless flirtations so I'm always happy to chat

Jay, 46 from Birkdale, Merseyside

Just looking to see if this is for me No Married Men No guys that swing both ways No 20 odd year olds and sorry I'm only attracted to black guys so no abuse needed thankyou

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