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Steph, 20 from Edinburgh, Lothian

I'm here to find an older man to satisfy my sexual needs and be my sugar daddy.

Sandra, 53 from March, Cambridgeshire

well what can I say about myself. Im quite shy when I first meet people, but am willing to meet up to overcome this. I would like to find someone who is gentle and kind. I have 2 dogs who I adore. I am a large lady so slow walks will do me fine. Im quite niave in the bedroom area so I need someone to take control and show me what ive been missing, which im looking forward too. I like watching adult films , I haven't seen many so once again I need someone who is willing...

Shareen, 30 from South Hackney, London

"Naughty is the new good" Hi guys my name is Shareen. I was on here recently I only go for white guys but i have to be attracted to you plus there should be some kind of spark there otherwise it's pointless. I absolutely hate anal, cum in my mouth (ive tried these) and any kind of freaky shit. Older men please do not message me. I've been there done that and im not looking for older men I know my profile might seem straight to the point but why waste someone elses time and honesty is the best...

Col, 38 from Chelmsford, Essex

Hi ladies....... I'm a fun outgoing adventurous very highly sexed guy, I'd like to find someone who has banter and likes to have lots naughty fun and try new things , as well as have a connection out of the sex too. I'm single and can accommodate , I do drive but without a car for time being so can travel within reason , I've had snip but happy to strap up if that's what your wanting . I'm respectful and just out for lots of fun and enjoy the moments we have . I love to please ,...

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