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David, 54 from Westminster, London

Professional man, separated and working in London. I am looking to meet a fun, intelligent woman for good times and to see what may develop. Would like to meet up for a drink first as personality is important to me as well as what may go on after. I'm told I'm good looking, intelligent, fun and well-endowed. I like to make sure time together is a two way thing and I like to treat a lady right and provide pleasure. Winks from people who have no photos and nothing about themselves on their profile will be ignored. Please also...

Cc, 24 from Selsdon, London

Face of an angel, mind of a devil. Interested in finding an experienced dom. Princess needs a daddy.

Wetu, 40 from Falkirk, Lothian

Princess in need of knight in shining armour who can go like a bunny big and thick

Shell, 39 from Colchester, Essex

So going to be free Sunday for an hour or two who fancies picking me up and taking me to lunch?

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