Start here
Join our sex dating community today and find casual encounters and uncomplicated sex with ease

Welcome to My Bed or Yours

My Bed or Yours is a website dedicated to finding people like you casual sex. Bringing together like minded adults with an interest in meeting other people for either one off sex sessions, regular fuck buddies or even illicit affairs.

Join now and search members looking for casual sex in Sydenham Hill right away

By joining a site exclusively for casual hook ups, you can be assured everyone here is looking for the same thing as you. Did we mention, registration is free?

Play the game - Who would you like to meet?

Loads of sexual experience or hardly any, it doesn't matter. We have a huge variety of members with a wide range of experiences, tastes and desires. If you are inexperienced there are loads of members here who love to corrupt young, innocent members, moulding them into sex gods for their own pleasure. While, other members like more experienced lovers to show them a trick or two. The main thing about My Bed or Yours is to be open and honest about what you want and you will find our friendly members will be very welcoming.

Is adult dating safe?

As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

  • Step 1 – Sign up for free using the form above to get instant access
  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
  • Start checking out other members profiles, have a look at their naughty photos and sexy member diaries. For extra convenience, check out our new 'who's near me' application which will show you members near you on an easy to use interactive map without giving away your exact location or any personal details. Start contacting members. Don't worry if you are shy, try an icebreaker or a cheeky wink to get the ball rolling.

Don't delay, create your own free profile today

Take advantage of our free photo profile account offer right now to secure your opportunity to meet willing sex partners every week. Registration takes less than a minute, your personal details are never displayed on the site and you will gain instant access to all our sexy members with no waiting for your account to be created or verified.

Updated profiles
Johnka, 49 from Sydenham Hill, London

I am spicy and hot, sweet and sour, just a man.

Honey, 50 from Sydenham Hill, London

not looking for one off sex meetings, looking for a regular fbuddy. maybe more if right person came along and we both felt there was more there than just being fbuddies, who knows ? im quite a cheerful , sociable person and happy for face to face meets rather than endless chat, not looking to do phone sex and camming its very false. Anything you wish to know just ask.

Dreamer, 46 from Sydenham Hill, London

I'm impossible, loyal, honest, sarcastic and have a great sense of humour and fun. I love to have a giggle and always wear a smile. I'm single, straight and live on my own in Lancaster. Looking to find new friends message me lets chat and see where it leads I have at times a sarcastic sense of humour but enjoy a good laugh. Relationship are a lot like algebra Have you ever looked at your X and wondered Y ?

Claire, 37 from Elton, Cheshire

If you're older than 40 dont message me. Younger than me dont message me. Live further than 10 miles from me dont message me.

Looking for something different?

Free sign up - no credit card required

Sign in to search

A fast, fun way to find sex near you

Featured areas

Find members in