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Clay, 41 from Birmingham, West Midlands

My personality can not be shown in pictures neither in me writing about it. I'm not just all dick I'm a nice down to earth guy who loves life and the joys that comes with it. Get to know me as a person and as a man and then you will really enjoy what pleasure that comes with this package.

Natasha, 51 from Shalford, Surrey

The only difference that I can see between this site and Pof.... Is that the Fine Dining is absent!! Gentlemen, if you receive a wink or a Like to Meet.... I am certainly not being Lazy!! by sending a wink or a meet or popping you in my favourites box is saying... Yes, I am interested ... But you will have to bear with me as I have a lot to filter through. Also... I have a small Dimplex fire that needs fixing... so an Electrician would be a bonus!!!! Natasha xx

Angie, 59 from Pudsey, West Yorkshire

Hi guys just to say you do need to be in the yorkshire area no good at the other end of the country unless yr carlisle/lakes way sorry. Im looking for regular guy so we can find out what we enjoy who loves fun sexiness with intelligent conversation and not just sex and no the flowers werent bought for me which is a shame but one never knows ever hopeful haha x

J, 33 from Thamesmead, London

I am looking for some good fun in the bedroom or where ever lol, wouldn't mind finding someone else who wants regular meets for sex then back to our own lives

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