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Chris, 49 from The Borough, London

hi granny slapper I want to fuck mature housewives and granny and seeking age 45 to70 you have hairy pussy i ready to go fuck you and cum in your mouth yummy

Samantha, 50 from Jesmond, Tyne And Wear

hiya all you men, i'm Sam, been divorced over 8yrs and happily single for now, it would take me a while to trust a man again after haveing the confidence kicked out of me with ex, dont get me wrong i dont tar all men with same brush but you genuine ones are very few and far between . I hate men who are happily married but still say they want more by wanting other women on the side, i know you have needs but why betray your wives like that it's disgusting. I do know hate is a...

Jaine, 64 from Cannock, Staffordshire

young at heart cuddly mature lady, looking for friendship, dating, intimacy enjoying life with friendship to begin with, love kissing and cuddling and intimacy I'm looking for a genuine, caring romantic man who likes to enjoy life, I hate liars I'm not into married men Love the outdoors having pub lunches b,y the river, weekends away, or cosy nights in. Love long hard kissing

Melly, 21 from Westbourne, Dorset

Hello, I think i'm pretty submissive and am interested in exploring this side to me whilst getting to know someone kind, i'm currently in 2nd year at university. I don't want a one night stand so please don't message me asking for a quickie but do message me if you would like to chat and potentially meet up/ see what happens :)

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