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Suzanne, 50 from Billingham, Cleveland

Love music, keeping fit, red wine and laughing, looking for a FWB....Ok pin back your eyeballs..... I'm not into one night stands, flings, married men or threesomes etc, I'm looking for one local-ish man to be my FWB! Cheers x

Louise, 42 from Ollerton, Nottinghamshire

Don't do married men only single men age between 30 and 44 , would like to meet up and see how it goes from their

Brando, 20 from Marble Arch, London

just looking for fun.. new to this

Linzi, 32 from Sutton In Ashfield, Nottinghamshire

I'm really just looking for some txting fun as i'm already in a relatiinship but the spark has gone just want some fun x x msg me guys x x pics available for rite guy lol x

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