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Jane, 26 from Oxford, Oxfordshire

Love dirty talk. The nastier the better ;) First give me wink, then give me something harder :p

Andy, 40 from Thelwall, Cheshire

Ok I'm single guy who at the moment is looking after disabled brother and works unsocial hours I'm looking for a female for either one night stand or something regular to help my lack of sex I can travel or accommodate but only accommodate occasionally I would also like a female with are to do it on the backseat plz come talk to me I don't judge age size race or status just be nice ok

Emma, 35 from Cardiff, South Glamorgan

Single mum looking to meet guys for some hot kinky fun. I love it when a man takes control of me, I love hard rough kinky sex. Love to be choked as I'm being fucked. I also love being whipped/gagged/tied up/spanked/blind folded and more. I like public sex (and indoor sex). Not into anal or water sports so don't attempt either. Been told I give an awesome blow job . Come on, say hi won't bite (unless u ask me to lol). Waiting to hear from you. Message me here and we can talk about times/days I can meet....

Absy, 30 from Oulton Broad, Suffolk

I'm very bubbly and wanna meet people who are genuine. I'm a larger gal who wants to have fun looking for new friends and more also 3some with the hubby as he love to watch his slut wife get fucked. We are both straight hope to talk soon xx

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