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Kenneth, 61 from Cookstown, County Tyrone

love two ups or sucking you dry

Katie, 36 from Seaton Carew, Cleveland

I'm a fun but quite shy girl looking for a dominant male. I'm 5 foot 4 and over 20 stone so if u don't like the larger lady please don't waste my time......anything else just ask me ;)

Sel, 37 from Totteridge & Whetstone, London

So I've been away for the past 3 years. Funny coming back and seeing the same old faces! This place doesn't change haha!

Saskia, 53 from Totteridge & Whetstone, London

Looking for fun and cuddles and nothing serious...and i love a man that knows how to kiss x I find a man with a good command of English an incredible turn on..intelligence is very sexy..i like to be intrigued.. I am a published authoress....and am no dumb blonde.. My criteria is high...can you achieve it ? Oh and one last thing...please do not send me a photo of your c**k... as the brain is the sexiest organ there is...

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