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Mybedoryours.com is your own filthy little black book bursting with horny guys and girls waiting for your call, swingers who want to play or even naughtly MILF's looking for some additional attention. No small talk - no commitments. Sound exciting? We give horny singles, couples and married partners a discrete place to find and meet up with for a little bedroom delight.

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We're not your run of the mill adult dating site. We were fed up with the amateur looking sites and poor service the others were offering. We wanted to create a discrete, exciting site that lets you find bedroom partners that excite you. No tricks or sleazy tactics - just an honest, upfront, safe way for you to find a fuck buddy. To prove the point we offer a free - no credit card - trial for you to get a feel of what we have to offer. Membership fees pay for our full time monitoring staff to keep away the trolls and any nuisance members.

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As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

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  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
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Gene, 44 from Totteridge, London

Gene has yet to add his profile. Ask Gene for more info.

Anne, 46 from Edinburgh, Lothian

Busy professional looking to make friends to hookup with when time permits. Social time and fun needed with someone in similar position. Don't have time for commitment. No strings attached, hot, passionate sex is a welcome bonus!

Mariah, 46 from Doddington, Lincolnshire

Hi ...I work hard want to play harder...don't entertain at home personal and work don't mix with private...they say variety is the spice of life if so bring on the spices x

Bikergal, 53 from Rushden, Northamptonshire

:) Hi I am looking for people who are friendly that I can connect with, I feel that friendship is important to me in any relationship, however casual, being able to chat and exchange views and experiences, feeling at ease with one another, enjoying each others company in a nice relaxed atmosphere and at the end of it wanting to meet again. I don't rule out the possibility of a relationship but I am not expecting to meet 'the one' on this site, but I do expect people to be genuine and honest with me, I have a major...

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