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Mike, 57 from Pontefract, West Yorkshire

Easy to get on with, good sense of humour, clean, looking for like minded :)

Simone, 39 from Roundhay, West Yorkshire

Need not say much...I am on MARITAL AFFAIR and certainly not here for milk and cookies. Not interested in any relationship nor the drama that comes with it. If you are not here for NSA then I cannot help you...same if you are bad mannered and unhygienic. I have an insatiable appetite for sex of the rough kind. You do not need a horse like cock to please me but must have a hard tongue and experienced hands. I am extremely naughty and love my boundaries pushed with confidence and hate men that constantly seek clarification. Enough said...happy shagging.

Rosie, 33 from Glasgow, Strathclyde

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Cet, 43 from Burley Gate, Hereford And Worcester

Hi there. I am looking for some no strings attached fun. I am very horny as I have not been in a relationship for 4 years and have been out of the dating game. Now I feel horny ALL the time and all I need is sex without any complications. Get in contact if you can satisfy my urges...

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