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Victoria, 21 from Wellwood, Fife

fun amd outgoing girl looking for some guilt free fun - wont let me add pictures but will happily send via mail message me for any information x

Claire, 34 from Peasedown St John, Avon

I sin, but I'm not the devil. I'm good, but I'm not an angel. My intentions are good, but not always well planned. I'm only as strong as the drinks I mix, And the tables I dance on! lol xxx i love my family very much.. when they dont do my head in that is lol i look after them that look after me my mates mean the world to me 2... what you see is what you get and if you dont like what you see you can fuck off.... and thats me :0) xxxx

Simona, 42 from Upminster, London

I may not be everyone's cup of tea, but there again - I don't have to be, life would be boring if we all liked the same. For me it's about how someone speaks to you, acts with you and not about someone with a 6 pack. I'm not into 20 somethings (too young for me) nor am I into someone a lot older than me, to be honest it would probably only be someone of a similar age. I'm not here to be a notch on a bedpost, and for me it has to be 1 man -...

Kevin, 62 from Gateshead, Tyne And Wear

Hi looking for NSA discreet relationship feeling a bit trapped. Would love an erotic adventure with someone that could bring back the fun and adventure into my sex life . I'm a retired gentleman from a Senior position. Love to party love to dance. Love to treat a lady . An unselfish lover the women always comes first (excuse the Pun). Love to fulfill fantasies for others as well as my own. Genuine replies only please

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