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Kerry, 27 from Gorton, Greater Manchester

Looking for good sexy fuck

Martin, 50 from Ramsgate, Kent

Ok, if you read the following and its not for you please remember that many sites are linked. I am 6'4" and I'm growing through my thatch and a genuine single and I can accommodate and chat anytime. I live by the beach and love red wine. I manage to hold down a full time office based job. I love cooking but hate washing up. I enjoy sports and I have a love of boats, we have a couple, and can be found at weekends with family enjoying Hythe, Southampton, Cowes and their wonderful selection of restaurants and bars....

Char, 39 from Poole, Dorset

Hi. Just looking for some fun. Not into one night stands, would want a regular hook ups.

Kiss, 27 from Haverhill, Suffolk

I'm fun, generous and gentle. I'm looking for the same in return. Looking for casual but safe encounters. Drop me a message if you like what you see.

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