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Simon, 50 from Tewkesbury, Gloucestershire

I'm not here to look for just sex. I would like a few strings, but perhaps not the full orchestra.

Ellie, 69 from Carrville, County Durham

Back in the Uk for7yrs after living abroad 41yrs. Finding it hard to meet people as at my age most everyone is married and established with already plenty friends. I am basically looking for a good friend , someone to spend days with, eventually weekends and holidays If we meet and truly like each other, then a sexual relationshihp will be a natural result..Not looking to get married , and will not respond to separated or married men. Only single non-smokers need make contact. I do prefer men to be taller than me . I do not want one...

Fen, 50 from Welton, Northamptonshire

OK, let's make this easy. 1) If you smoke, please stop reading now and move on. And yes, e-cigs count, or why would you be using them? 2) If you are married, please stop reading now and move on. If you've made it this far, please go back and check 1 & 2 above before carrying on and read all the way to the bottom. It may be useful to read it twice, just in case you missed the vital stuff the first time round. For the incredibly hard of understanding, a third of fourth reading may be beneficial....

Staceyd, 26 from Craigavon, County Armagh

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