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Sarah, 35 from Coaley, Gloucestershire

I haven't put up a picture but happy to send one. I'm blonde, blue eyed, 5'6", average build / slightly curvy. I'm not looking for a relationship. I work hard play hard. I'm looking for a friend with benefits ! Discreet fun wanted ! I'm not looking for a toy boy - nor an older man. I like a nice body, muscular, a sense of humour I'm a sucker for a hard back massage ! I'm not looking to bed hop or a three some: I would like a genuine guy for a discreet relationship. Maybe the impossible is...

Shaun, 42 from Fleet, Hampshire

I am fit as I play rugby and train twice a week and work hard in the gym to keep myself trim. Looking for a lady to satisfy my needs, so who is brave enough to take on that challange. I am loyal one woman man but she has to show the same. Thank you for reading and hopefully we can have a lot of fun and build a relationship if we are compatible. XX

Willow, 32 from Upper Catshill, Hereford And Worcester

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Sarah, 43 from Holmfirth, West Yorkshire

PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE MARRIED. Me... Independent, laid back, fiesty, sense of humour, active, honest Looking for... Non complicated fun with one person on a regular basis. Fun can comprise of eating, drinking, observing (films or dvds - not other couples!!) as well as more 'physical' activities!! You... Strong personality (to match mine), funny, active, honest, nice eyes and smile and of reasonable intelligence Looking for... The same as me Please say hello or send me a wink if the above sounds like you....

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