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Ruth, 50 from Gaerwen, Gwynedd

Independent lady....looking for.... Long term relationship with the right person.... I have a need.....but am not needy,,,,.there is a difference. I have a higher than normal sex drive...... I consider myself to be open minded...but also know that...before you can run you must walk.!!! So I'm looking for an experienced.....tactile..intelligent....sexy... easy on the eye ....age bracket 46/57 or thereabouts..!(GENT / MAN / FELLA ) When I don't reply its just my way of saying NOT Interested...Not being rude...... I do enjoy a cozy nights in \ full of frolicking \u0026 fun...but also on the other hand I also like...

Lorla, 38 from Longton, Staffordshire

If you like what you see, then message me and we will have a chat. See if it's mutual. I am on kik.

Connie, 37 from Great Baddow, Essex

Here to find men and women. Threesoms and dirty sex

Nick, 48 from Victoria Docks, London

a gent that wants a friend and lover.always looks and smells good,very dry sense of humour,intelligent,curteous and respectful .Don't want to bed hop just want one lover regular meets or not so regular its fine with me.Try me I don't disappoint !

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