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Carol, 42 from Forest Gate, London

Enjoy chilling to music. Like giving and receiving pleasure. Looking for well mannered and good communicator in the bedroom. Foreplay is the key for me. In turn will do my utmost to help you achieve your sexual high. Please note that if yr profile not completed will not respond. Please no dick pics. Wait to hear from you. C

Carol, 47 from Barnsley, South Yorkshire

HELLO, MY PHOTOS SEEM TO BE GETTING REJECTED EVERYTIME I TRY LOADING THEM,,ANYBODY HAVE ANY IDEAS WHY? IV CONTACTED THE SUPPORT TEAM BUT NO HELP THERE, THaNK YOu Caz SORTED OUT PHOTOS NOW, THANKS to THOSE DUDES WHO messaged me trying to help, appreciated ,

Tracy, 53 from Wandsworth Common, London

53 year old submissive T-girl wants good, hard, powerful, rough, bb sex with black men.

Leeg, 21 from Shrewsbury, Shropshire

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