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Lexa, 32 from Leyton, London

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Hi guys I have been here before so I know the score, I DO NOT suffer fools or timewasters BE WARNED Whilst I apapreciate this is a sex site "Do you like big cock?", "fancy a shag?" I could go on with the intelligent mind blowing dross, these will not win you any awards, please show respect, if not I will just BLOCK you Age between 28 and 45 ONLY NO SMOKERS only when we on fire in the bedroom ha ha MUST HAVE a photo on your profile, I will not reply to anyone who has a blank...

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