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Nat, 28 from Witham, London

Hey guys, I'm Nat a 28 year old bbw I'm large with a big fat ass and massive tits.. I'm in a loving relationship but bf is a premature ejaculator cuckold who loves to be humiliated and forced to watch as real men pleasure me by fucking me hard infront of him and filling my pussy up with cum for him to lick clean. I love to look in his eyes as I suck another mans cock and love telling him how pathetic he is as I get pounded! He is my slave and will do as I'm told...

Sophia, 22 from Witham, London

A 22 year old looking for good company and good conversation. I enjoy the finer things. Looking for someone who I can spend time with. I enjoy dinning out, going out for cocktails and shopping

Sara, 41 from West Calder, Lothian

hi, my name isnt sara its honeyhole dont get excited its only a name, i like having fun, drinks, chat and music, i hate sleezy chat up lines so dont bother.

Henrick, 53 from Witham, London

Thanks for looking at my details. Although i am currently in a relationship, but we don't live together. I have been harbouring in the back of my mind for sometime and now wish to peruse this, and that's to have sex with a lovely granny. This is why I have joined the site, in the hope I can have my secret fantasy fulfilled.

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