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Lee, 48 from Whitefield, Greater Manchester

I'm 6'4..no picture yet..just looking,what I am, is stress free..no drama's..very easy going.I'm a Gentelman ..very much..

Angelina, 40 from Radford, West Midlands

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Mandy, 44 from Witham, London

Right best fill this in lol I joined a while ago but never really used the site as I found it really wasn't what I expected! What people don't realise is that not everyone is looking for the same thing ie cheats, bdsm, grab a granny etc etc lol Ok I joined one thinking it was for 40+ who actually are looking for a relationship! Soon realised that for the majority of people this wasn't the case! I'm not looking for NSA or a quick shag when you're wife/partner aren't giving it you, if you're unhappy then get out...

Jue, 56 from Cleveleys, Lancashire

Hiya,im a blonde curvy woman,very caring and likes to pamper me man,im looking for a guy who takes pride in his appearance,whos young at heart like me.looking for regular dating with just one guy.ive just come out of a.8 month relationship so not looking for anything too heavy.age range between 40/55 no younger or older thankyou.im not on here just to meet up for sex.im looking for a boyfriend .If you have no pic on here or not filled out your profile dont bother msg me,not interested in guys whos got something to hide.

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