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Susan, 50 from Woking, London

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James, 33 from Pyle, Mid Glamorgan

Looking for discrete NSA fun can and will try anything

Alison, 45 from Wolverton, Bedfordshire

A little about me I'm separated but we still live together. I have a 7yr old son so I have limited free time and want to make the most of it.... Im looking for someone (white only) I can meet on a regular basis if we get along of course..must be local honest and reliable I can not accommodate ever..so you would need to x

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I am a young looking 51 with long blond hair & lovely slim figure. I am genuine honest person looking for the same in a person

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