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Lonely, 37 from Wood Green, London

Haven't had any intimacy for the last year since my husband had his affair. I'm lonely and low, I need some fun, excitement and passion in my life. I am overweight. Although I miss sex I also miss the contact like kissing, hugs and rubs. I'm not into anything rough or anything to do with anal, giving or receiving. A fwb would be good and meets in the day would be easier. I'm not into older men sorry. Photo isn't flattering but least you know what you're getting ;-) I am size 20, I think the angle I've taken...

Sophie, 30 from Guildford, Surrey

Variety is the spice of life...... I am looking for an average-big man that can show me new levels of pleasure. I want someone who wants to try new things but has to love giving oral! I have a sexually "vanilla" partner and I am just looking for a bit more excitement. I would consider most things....no pain games though! I am a bisexual natural redhead and although my hair is a darker auburn the rest is brighter red! I have large breasts and wide hips with a womanly figure.

Renee, 28 from Highbury And Islington, London

Wrong place at the right time.. Nsa...Casual .. date for an event...... Treat as a lady... Good company.... Taste me until I say stop Make me laugh and fuck me till my moaning makes you cum all over my slim sexy body. ....You will want more....

Mike, 57 from Wood Green, London

No overblown boasts here. Just a decent guy looking for indecent adventure in the company of a wonderful (or wicked!) woman, to explore some sensual and stimulating dreams and desires. Prerequisites? A sinful sense of humour would be a good start - after all, laughter IS one of the most potent aphrodisiacs! Apart from that, a connection too - I mean, what could possibly be better than a mutual meeting of mind and body? Oh,yes, and the photo is from 2016!

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