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Al, 38 from Worcester Park, London

After some hot times, ideally fun outside the bedroom too. Believe mutual satisfaction is essential and enjoy pleasuring as much as receiving. Guess I'm after someone with similar values!

Eliza, 44 from Kirkby Lonsdale, Cumbria

I am the girl with the twinkle in her eye...the one who seeks adventure and danger , the one who wants to be a little reckless everyday Tall, red hair and hazel eyes...a cheeky smile and a humour to go with it...tattoos but done tastefully and with considered thought Spending time outdoors essential...anything that makes me feel wild and free...I want you to grab my attention and stir up a storm....

Claire, 55 from Banstead, Surrey

Great sense of humour,loves watching Rugby,Cricket,Motorsport,.I enjoy cooking, reading, going out for a drink, meals etc.and meeting and spending time with new people, travelling.I am honest,trustworthy, eager to be guided in making us both happy I am shy and. nervous .Hoping to meet a tall handsome,energetic medium build man to maybe show me the ropes. I can be collected and returned most daytimes and or evenings .Please send me. photographs and details.

Victoria, 21 from Banstead, Surrey

fun amd outgoing girl looking for some guilt free fun - wont let me add pictures but will happily send via mail message me for any information x

Simona, 42 from London

I may not be everyone's cup of tea, but there again - I don't have to be, life would be boring if we all liked the same. For me it's about how someone speaks to you, acts with you and not about someone with a 6 pack. I'm not into 20 somethings (too young for me) nor am I into someone a lot older than me, to be honest it would probably only be someone of a similar age. I'm not here to be a notch on a bedpost, and for me it has to be 1 man - 1 woman and not multiples, honesty is a MUST for me and it takes me a lot to trust someone, ONCE THAT TRUST IS GONE - YOU CANNOT GET IT BACK. I'm a genuine and honest person and when I say something I mean it, but I expect the same back in return, I detest big liars, always have done. I am a none smoking (a must for me) fun loving woman, I work (damn hard) so love it when I get some relaxing "me" time. If you are in a relationship / married you may as well move along as I wouldn't be interested, this woman comes with morals. IF it's broken somehow then fix it or move on, excuses are just that ....... only do to others what you wouldn't mind done to yourself. And just a heads up, it's up to you how you treat a woman, but I'm personally not into a first message from someone that has the story line of a porn film, i'm not trash so in all honesty I expect a little bit more class - fun and flirting is one thing, porn and vulgarity is something else. I am a red blooded...

Sade, 43 from Leicester, Leicestershire

I am looking for something serious that will lead to a lifetime of bliss!

Claire, 34 from Peasedown St John, Avon

I sin, but I'm not the devil. I'm good, but I'm not an angel. My intentions are good, but not always well planned. I'm only as strong as the drinks I mix, And the tables I dance on! lol xxx i love my family very much.. when they dont do my head in that is lol i look after them that look after me my mates mean the world to me 2... what you see is what you get and if you dont like what you see you can fuck off.... and thats me :0) xxxx

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Elodie, 50 from Huntingdon, Cambridgeshire

Hi Looking for someone for drinks, dinners, days out and nights in. Not necessarily a relationship in the conventional sense, but not looking for a one night shag!

Bambi, 33 from Chigwell, Essex

Hey, I'm looking for NSA fun with one guy for regular meets, must be well endowed, tall and a non smoker and the odd cuddle now and then. Happy hunting!

Andy, 53 from Wisbech, Cambridgeshire

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Kaz, 42 from Swindon, Wiltshire

New profile as the last one was hacked! If you've had a message requesting an anal orgy or similar, i can assure you it wasn't from me lol Would like to find someone genuine, and good fun who is also looking for regular meets or FWB type of situation. I don't get a huge amount of free time, but when I do it would be nice to have some good company, a few laughs and some adult fun ;-) I'm not looking to meet anyone who is married or in a relationship. As my profile says, I am 'cuddly' or fuller figured if you prefer. Plenty of curves, but if that's not for you, then I wish you well with your search. I'm not looking to waste anyone's time and my photos are recent. I can't always meet at the drop of a hat due to commitments at home, and for the same reason, i'm looking for someone within a reasonable travelling distance. Now that all the serious stuff is covered, if you'd like to know more, then come and have a chat and see what fun we could have x

Jem, 31 from Clenchwarton, Norfolk

Busy professional working unsociable hours needing the occasional good hook up. Not wanting a relationship or FWB deal, NSA is more ideal. Looking for a rememberable session or two. Love oral (both giving and receiving) and foreplay. Like a guy to be in charge and take the lead. Will try most things once. Cannot accommodate. Not interested in smokers and prefer local. Pictures on request...38DD, size 20.

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