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Welcome to My Bed or Yours, an adult contacts site for naughty singles, swingers and anyone looking for a little excitement. In the past, connecting with local swingers could be a tiresome task. Not anymore..

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Does it all sound a bit too good to be true? We'll be honest, it is a bit fantastic. But it's really not that unbelievable when you think about it. People love sex but are usually too timid to just come out and say it. We offer a safe place they can live out their fantasies. We believe that if you offer a good honest service and do what you say you're going to do then people will enjoy using it and keep coming back for more. Which is why we have a constantly growing number of men and women with a healthy fun attitude towards sex. Signing up for a trial account is FREE and doesn't require any sort of credit card. Your free to browse the profiles and set up your own to see if there's someone for you.

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Anita, 59 from Bletchingley, Surrey

Anita has yet to add her profile.

Bella, 25 from Birmingham, West Midlands

Well what to say I'm young and looking for some fun and someone who knows how to have a good time.xxx

Becky, 28 from Swaffham, Norfolk

I'm looking to fulfil my high sex drive...

Shelia, 57 from South Hornchurch, London

I would love to be treated like a lady taken out and wined and dined. I have a gosh and would like some nice times with laughes and fun. Be nice to meet new people and enjoy each other's company. I'm loyal, caring and happy don't want to be hurt by anyone again!!! Be nice to have someone to talk to by text etc and someone who would be there for me for a change miss having someone to share things with good or bad. Someone who would like to say GoodMorning/Goodnight and the occasional Hi during the day.

Jules, 54 from Bradford, West Yorkshire

Hi guys I have been here before so I know the score, I DO NOT suffer fools or timewasters BE WARNED Whilst I apapreciate this is a sex site "Do you like big cock?", "fancy a shag?" I could go on with the intelligent mind blowing dross, these will not win you any awards, please show respect, if not I will just BLOCK you Age between 28 and 45 ONLY NO SMOKERS only when we on fire in the bedroom ha ha MUST HAVE a photo on your profile, I will not reply to anyone who has a blank profile picture I am clearly on show IF I give you my kik, I WILL NOT be sharing any pics of me except my mug shot so DO NOT ask No more than 30 miles away unless prepared to travel as I am Tall guy's only over 5'9" NO SLUG monobrows one of my pet hates NO NO NO COCK PICS WITH FIRST MESSAGE, I like to see first hand NOT in a pic I am looking for one or two regular guys for social and sexual fun, not into one night stands or sleeping with the whole site Must Have Hair on ya head the one on your shoulders Man garden area free from vermain and bush hair Own teeth no plink plink fizz Slim to average build only I maybe old but not quite ready for the old folk's home just yet, not ready for horlicks or tenna ladies either I am fun, flirty and naughty, but do not suffer fools, treat me with respect and I will do the same I love kissing as this is the start to great sexual chemistry If I have piqued your interest come and say hi Jules x

Beny, 40 from Lingfield, Surrey

I'm honest, tidy and got spence humour:) also high sex drive but in a clean way ! No anal! Also I'm big wide down there :)

Babs, 49 from Bletchingley, Surrey

I am big and beautiful.

Babyjade, 30 from Bletchingley, Surrey

Are there any vegans on here?! Why is compassion for non-human animals so hard to find? I am VEGAN. I mention this in caps because it is a huge part of who I am and I'm currently working out how to help save the world. Yes, seriously. Please consider veganism, it saves animals, humans, the environment, and is basically the only way to save humanity at this point. I don't want an argument about it though, and stupid messages will be automatically deleted, thanks :) Moving on, if you care to... Right, I don't have a lot of experience, I'm extremely shy and a bit socially awkward. I'm not looking for nsa. Looking for a friend with benefits, pretty much, with emphasis on friends. Basic respect and consideration a must. I'd like to have some fun, explore a little, and find someone for regular meetups. Looking to chat first, and not just about sex, would be nice to know a little about you, then maybe meet, but with no obligation on either side. I.e., just because I'm willing to meet you, doesn't mean I'm going to hop into bed with you. I don't think chemistry is something that can be figured out online or after 5 minutes. I can't accommodate and not into outdoor games, so would be good if you can accommodate. I have a couple of tattoos, and do like them on men, as well as piercings ;) You- preferably tall (I'm 5'8) 5'8 or up(can you mention if you message please? ), physically fit, white-Caucasian, good looking(shallow,maybe,oh well), not younger than 21 or older than 35ish. Hopefully local, non smoker, and Single (I don't cheat and not willing to be anyone's cheat). If you're married, unhappily or not, please don't waste your time contacting me. I know...

Chloe, 21 from Bletchingley, Surrey

21 year old university student studying Anthropology and with a passion for travel. I enjoy experimenting and would love to meet a guy who can open my eyes to the endless possibilities. And hopefully I can show you what I'm all about. Feel free to leave me a message :) I don't bite, well sometimes. Unless you have dick pics on your profile, then please don't.

Sharon, 50 from Bucknall, Staffordshire

No point keep winking if your settings either block me or you don't answer if I message you!! If married and still with your wife and just wanting to cheat please don't bother reading any further! Just looking for an honest, genuine, NOT married or unhappily married man. Don't expect to get a nice reply if you do message and 'unhappily' married!!!! Don't be offended but if your under 35, don't bother messaging. Hate liars so if u thinking of not being honest, don't bother

Kentguy, 31 from Maidstone, Kent

Looking to venture out and try new things let's make imagination reality

Toby, 27 from Dagenham, London

Here for a good time not a long time. Currently in a relationship with not much going on, lookong for a bit of fun, preferably regular to suit each others needs.

Booby, 47 from Bletchingley, Surrey

I'm v sexual and naughty..come chat see where it goes

Amanda, 51 from Wilsden, West Yorkshire

NOT looking for nsa! Am a guitarist, ONLY interested in a relationship ;-) x ps...no face pic...no chat!...

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