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Angie, 59 from Pudsey, West Yorkshire

Hi guys just to say you do need to be in the yorkshire area no good at the other end of the country unless yr carlisle/lakes way sorry. Im looking for regular guy so we can find out what we enjoy who loves fun sexiness with intelligent conversation and not just sex and no the flowers werent bought for me which is a shame but one never knows ever hopeful haha x

Katherine, 37 from East Sussex

I am very open minded. Feel free to ask me anything....

John, 26 from East Sussex

I'll chat with pretty much anyone about . practically anything. So with that out of the way, a little about me for anyone reading this. I'm a some what rocker-ish guy. Wear a lot of black, even have the whole real leather trench coat thing (some people go for that) I'm mostly looking for some textual fun and so on, but if it leads somewhere then ill go with it.

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The only difference that I can see between this site and Pof.... Is that the Fine Dining is absent!! Gentlemen, if you receive a wink or a Like to Meet.... I am certainly not being Lazy!! by sending a wink or a meet or popping you in my favourites box is saying... Yes, I am interested ... But you will have to bear with me as I have a lot to filter through. Also... I have a small Dimplex fire that needs fixing... so an Electrician would be a bonus!!!! Natasha xx

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