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Cummifita, 33 from Paisley, Strathclyde

Hi, I'm 33, married and live in Paisley. I have nice set of 36c boobs, size 10-12 waist, firm thighs tight buttocks and waxed smooth all over, I have long dark brown hair and green eyes, my sign is Sagittarius, I'm a student and have an extra high sex drive. I had a little taste of the naughty side last year, with a friend of hubbys and I liked it. So I'm after a genuine male 30-50 years old with a heathly physic and large cock would prefer 8" + . (I want a big cock). I like a...

Paul, 33 from East Sussex

Irish, professional, athletic male. I have a dirty side which I want to explore, looking to meet a lady for some nsa fun, maybe regular if we click. It only gets better when two people know and trust each other. Pleasing my partner is a massive turn on for me and foreplay should start slow and build from there as we push each others limits. If that sounds like fun, say hello and lets see what happens...

Dreamer, 41 from Clapham, Bedfordshire

Looking to fulfil my fantasy and have a 3sum, so if a couple of guys fancy a BBW to do what they want with then please let me know

Michelle, 40 from New Holland, Lincolnshire

Hi looking for friendship n fun c wot happens from there

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