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My Bed or yours is a sex contacts site for sexually liberated singles and couples who enjoy sex and need a fast, easy way to connect with similar people for casual meet-ups, online sex games or just some innocent flirting or voyeurism.

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We are a friendly community of very different people from a range of backgrounds sharing a common interest in sex and erotica. There is nothing dark or seedy about what goes on here, it's simply a fantastic way to meet other people for local sexual encounters.

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Finding casual sex is easy with My Bed or Yours, the safe, discreet matchmaking system for open minded adults. Simply sign up using our quick registration form above to get instant access to all out naughty members, start searching for local adults in East Sussex or anywhere else in UK or just fill in some basic information and let our automated profile matching system do the work for you.

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Stop wasting your time and hard earned money on boring dating web sites which are not suited to your needs. The majority of members on the popular dating web sites are not interested in simply meeting for casual sex and many would be highly offended if you suggested swinging or partner swapping. You may even be blocked if they found out you were married. Not on My Bed or Yours. Our members are open and honest about what they want which for many is not a serious boyfriend or girlfriend or any commitment.

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Updated profiles
Jayne, 39 from Huntingdon, Cambridgeshire

39 year old single mother of 5 . Fairly attractive with come to bed eyes ( or so I have been told ) .

Latinasweet, 22 from East Sussex

Latinasweet has yet to add her profile.

Jack, 83 from Baguley, Greater Manchester

I am a widower, 82 years old, I keep as fit as I can, I am on my teadmill every day for at least 30 mins, I walk a lot, I love to go out and wine and dine, love to dance, love strolling on a beach when the weather permits, looking for that sexual relaxation, also looking to hook up with my nemesis, on the sexual front,

Courtney, 23 from Intake, South Yorkshire

Not married but long term partners with my boyfriend who loves seeing me with guys would like someone to fool around with and record I'm light petite with a thick bubble butt and personally would like to try anal can accommodate and loves name calling and verbal abuse in sex

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