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Sophie, 28 from Leigh-On-Sea, Essex

I'm young free and single, who is curvy with tattoos with a couple of dreads in don't worry I do wash them I'm looking for regular local fun, with one person. Who could fulfil my wildest fantasies and if you catch me in the right mood I might well help fulfil yours too. So if you like what you see and read drop me a message and see what happens. Xoxo

Starry, 59 from Greenmount, Greater Manchester

Big Beautiful woman attractive and dresses well, looking for fun meets with lots of laughter nice company . Only interested in nice single men , nice meal glass of merlot, who knows where it will lead ? Not into one night stands , looking for long term ,hoping to have fun while I'm searching. Please do not wink I hate winks think it a lazy way to communicate Looking for men similar age to me 50-60 . Definitely no married or attached . No photo no reply,

Mark, 35 from Rutherglen, Borders

hi i'm mark single man looking for some skin on skin action. i love legs and feet i cant help it they are amazing and especially if they are covered in nylons and wrapped around me or my neck and in my hands and mouth. i love every bit of a woman and will explore every inch with my hands and mouth or what ever she wants me to do. into most things in the bedroom and open to try out some new things with the right woman. i've been told that i am a gentleman with good manners...

Clare, 37 from Essex

Certainly not looking for Mr Right on here but neither do I want Mr Anyone Taking my time x

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