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My Bed or Yours is a website dedicated to connecting people like you for adult encounters, affairs and naughty online chat. We make it easy to find local people who are looking to meet other adults for no strings fun in a safe, discreet environment. Registration is free and instant so you could be chatting to horny singles, local swingers or even bored housewives within minutes. You could even be having sex with someone new by tonight if you register now.

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We have members of all shapes, sizes, races and persuasions right across UK looking for someone to share some naughty time with. Most of our members are simply busy people with no time for a serious relationship and need a convenient way to find sexual satisfaction without the hassles that come with a relationship. Others are married people looking for some extra-marital excitement or couples seeking other couples for swinging fun. Everyone is welcome here, even married members looking for some extra marital excitement. All we ask is that you are open and honest about your marital status to avoid any confusion and avoid using fake profile photos.

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Kiss, 27 from Essex

I'm fun, generous and gentle. I'm looking for the same in return. Looking for casual but safe encounters. Drop me a message if you like what you see.

Lyn, 44 from Little Bollington, Cheshire

I am a feminine woman who enjoys the usual thing a woman does but hubby is away on business and i enjoy great sex there is no substitute for a great live cock and there is only so much you can do with my toys. So i am looking for guys who have a great imagination for real hot horny risqu, sensual sex and know how to really pleasure a woman without being too rough, I want to be completely satisfied in every way (guys I hope you get what i mean). I like to dress up i am...

Lee, 38 from Penketh, Cheshire

Well what can i say. I hate filling these in Anyway if you want to know more just message me

Chloe, 29 from Essex

Looking for fun and new experiences! Preferably a guy who takes control

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