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Candy, 41 from Kew Gardens, London

I'm fun, intelligent and outgoing (can be fiesty), with a naughty side for right guy but you have to get to know me. Not here for abusive messages...looking for a cool guy with a wild side. Manners...respect goes both ways. I tend to like younger guys, independent, interesting, can string a sentence together and like to look after themselves ie. fit :) Understand if you only have body shot but if we chat then will want to know what you look like. Looking for a casual no hassle relationship/situ, a fwb, have a busy lifestyle. Need a connection, so...

Marie, 45 from Omagh, County Tyrone

Will add more, but at the moment looking for someone local to me, who ideally can accommodate. Like a man who has a good sense of humour and loves to chat. I want someone who knows how to please a woman, who just doesn't think about themselves. Looking for a discreet fun relationship, nothing serious. Would like to emphasize , would prefer someone who is within a 25-30 min car drive. Don't like pushy men who try and pressure me. Also prefer men who n are a similar age to me,or a bit older, not into younger men. Daytime...

Greenoak, 43 from Chapeltown, South Yorkshire

Hello I'm friendly helpfull man, I like cooking and eating with you and kiss you every time! Smiling, kissing, hugging and more. I'm open minded and reliable! I love sex but more interested in long-time fun in the bed. I'm ready to kiss you soon. Kiss Kiss

Rosie, 33 from Glasgow, Strathclyde

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