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Laura, 35 from Storrington, West Sussex

Friendly, caring and sensual lady looking for someone to keep me warm

Michael, 55 from Surrey

I am a single guy(divorced), well travelled and solvent. I am only looking for casual encounters/ nsa. I am average height and weight (1.80) and (81.5)Kg, and can travel and accommodate. I enjoy role play, and love giving oral. I have a penchant for adventurous Asian women, especially S.E.Asia (Chinese, Japanese)

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