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My Bed or Yours is a website dedicated to connecting people like you for adult encounters, affairs and naughty online chat. We make it easy to find local people who are looking to meet other adults for no strings fun in a safe, discreet environment. Registration is free and instant so you could be chatting to horny singles, local swingers or even bored housewives within minutes. You could even be having sex with someone new by tonight if you register now.

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We have members of all shapes, sizes, races and persuasions right across USA looking for someone to share some naughty time with. Most of our members are simply busy people with no time for a serious relationship and need a convenient way to find sexual satisfaction without the hassles that come with a relationship. Others are married people looking for some extra-marital excitement or couples seeking other couples for swinging fun. Everyone is welcome here, even married members looking for some extra marital excitement. All we ask is that you are open and honest about your marital status to avoid any confusion and avoid using fake profile photos.

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It's a sad fact that so many adult dating sites are just plain dodgy and just out for your money. Of course we would like you to pay for our service but we think you should pay because it's a good service not because we are forcing it out of you. Our goal has always been to provide a safe, fun, trustworthy adult dating experience. We have full time members of staff you can actually call if you have a problem. We don't ask for any credit card details until you are actually ready to pay for something.

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Dbush, 46 from Wolfforth, TX

Happily married, two kids at home. Love to hunt and fish. Garden, photography, an massage. I am fun, outgoing, and honest. Looking for discreet FWB.

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looking for older man(40+) to fuck, I am 22 yr old dyke girl who loves cock too much

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Open to meeting for one night, or on a continuing if it's good for us... into flirty/dirty chat... and/or casual dating. Seeking mature women, especially those who enjoy and appreciate a willing tongue. Not a deal breaker... but have never had a women piss on me... only kink fantasy I've ever had and never tried.

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