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Brittany, 27 from Central Brooklyn, New York City, NY

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B, 46 from Topeka, KS

Playful female when relaxed and treated very well. I can be shy at first however, once you have let me know how desirable I am to you.....I may be the bold woman telling you what I need or want! Wants to be spoiled and I am willing to come to you as you want me then make it happen! * Have the flexibility to be that erotic encounter so bring me to you!* I am putty in your hands and you are the craftsman. I love sex. I love watching a man stroke himself and I enjoy your cum...

Kris, 43 from Tarpon Springs, FL

I just recently learned about dogging and I love the idea of it, I don't know how I have never heard about it until now! The thought of going somewhere, sitting on the door of my car and having men jack-off and fuck me really turns me on. I have a "friend with benefits" I have talked to about this & would love to have him watch and record it. If you have experience with this- please let me know how this works :) I have also never had a threesome with 2 guys - very interested in that...

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