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Jazmine, 30 from Bladensburg, MD

Im a pregnant female looking for sex. I haven't had sex in almost 2 months just looking for quick sex.

Monica, 25 from Malone, NY

fun but not controlling doesn't have to lead to anything

Rose, 39 from Buffalo, NY

Self Description: I'm petite, cute and pretty. I'm young, independent and lives life to the fullest. I have a good heart and soul. I love to travel anywhere in the world as long it will take a long ride and a lot of beautiful memories. If ever you'll gonna meet me in person, you'll have the best days of your life because I love to share and talk about love and life. I can easily communicate because I'm very approachable. Comments: The person I seek to be my perfect mate is a man who has same interests same as...

Tim, 42 from Duck, WV

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