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Kaylee, 27 from La Mesa, California

Just looking for a little fun no serious relationships just having a great time

Vickey, 59 from La Mesa, California

Just a simple....laid back lady....looking for love.....passionate...loving....giving.......love the simple things in life...love candle lite dinners......soft music.....laying in front of the fireplace and keeping the heat going ...long after the fire is out.......talk soon!

Alicia, 27 from North Austin, Austin, TX

Looking for excitment!

Bishara, 21 from La Mesa, California

im looking for a girl that finds me funny, which shouldn't be too hard, i guess ill have to get by the ass pics and into their heart hopefully. Also i'm very rough with sex, so if you're into that like choking and shit like that don't hesitate to ask

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