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Welcome to My Bed or Yours, an adult contacts site for naughty singles, swingers and anyone looking for a little excitement. In the past, connecting with local swingers could be a tiresome task. Not anymore..

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It's a sad fact that so many adult dating sites are just plain dodgy and just out for your money. Of course we would like you to pay for our service but we think you should pay because it's a good service not because we are forcing it out of you. Our goal has always been to provide a safe, fun, trustworthy adult dating experience. We have full time members of staff you can actually call if you have a problem. We don't ask for any credit card details until you are actually ready to pay for something.

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Pam, 47 from Mounds View, Minnesota

Seriously, y'all who send me messages and are 500+ miles away? What do you think is going to magically happen where we meet up? Lol, ya just crack me up... Simple girl with simple tastes. For now, we'll skip the fact that I used to be a gymnast. And cheerleader. I have a creative imagination and great sense of humor. I'm snuggly also... Just in case you are curious, separated means working on divorce. I kind of figured why should I be married to a man who keeps forgetting that he's married? So, yes, if you are married please...

D, 41 from Atlantic Boulevard Estates, Jacksonville, FL

Hi potential friend, I am 41 yrs old and looking for a no-strings romantic/sexual/friend relationship. I would love to have a partner to go out to eat, drink, dance and see where that leads us at the end of the night. I also want to make it clear that I have my own life and responsiblities and do not want a relationship or the commitments that come along with that at this time. I would like to meet someone that has the following qualities: handsome, charismatic, funny (sense of humor), loves music and dancing and can be seen in...

Lori, 32 from Anniston, AL

Married female ready to explore new things

Coy, 50 from Alief, Houston, TX

I'm a fifty year old black male with a high sex drive. I'm wanting sex a lot, my penis is long and thick. I'm not a selfish guy in bed and out of bed. I love to caress a woman from head too toe.. I love to make a woman have multiple orgasms.

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