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Freddie, 35 from West Babylon, NY

Heyy!..Love spendin time with the family especially my three little cousins..Family means everything to me..I love to do anything and everything..From hangin out with friends, goin out to dinner to layin low and relaxin..I love the outdoors, the beach, the park/nature trails/sunsets, camping, snowboarding, playin softball (big Yankees, Rangers, Jets and Knicks fan)..Luv all types of music from hard rock to trance..Do like edge of your seat type of movies but can watch anything..Hopin to meet someone and making each other happy :-)

Rashida, 30 from Oakley, California

I love sex....men or women....am into rough sex, lesbianism, group sex, anal, foreplay, love it when a man rapes me. Will do anything to please my partner.

Valerie, 46 from Clear Lake, Houston, TX

Looking for a play mate to go on fun play dates with, love pleasing my man and getting pleased and pleasured in return.Not looking for LTR, just good clean adult fun :)

Christina, 23 from Buffalo, NY

I'm new to this, but I like trying different things

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