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Matt, 55 from Oildale, California

I'm a big teddy bear who loves sex

Angela, 44 from Oildale, California

I am a 44 year old BBF looking to find another male to play with my male slave and me. I am new at this myself. He is well hung and likes to be dominated. Role reversal is a possibility. He will give oral, rim, give and receive anal. I enjoy anal, DP, giving and receiving oral. Would be first time with another male for both of us. Must be clean, disease free.

Beth, 41 from Washington, ME

I am a single mom of two kids. I know what I want and I want to be the dominant one in charge of everything including any men. Tired of want to be men. Looking for a real man who knows how to treat a woman right and a man who loves to to be told what to do especially in sex games. I am a dominatrix by nature.

Laura, 35 from Oildale, California

Hi my name Laura, and I am not on this site for every low life to hit me up on . I have certain interests in mind when it comes to aan or a woman. I am talking to someone now of who I hope will be a very important person in my life. Enough with the out of state people, I don't wanna have anyone else who like watch someone piss or shit cuz that is just fuckin nasty. Thank you not judging to each their own but keep it away from me please. I need to cum...

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