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My Bed or Yours is a website dedicated to connecting people like you for adult encounters, affairs and naughty online chat. We make it easy to find local people who are looking to meet other adults for no strings fun in a safe, discreet environment. Registration is free and instant so you could be chatting to horny singles, local swingers or even bored housewives within minutes. You could even be having sex with someone new by tonight if you register now.

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We have members of all shapes, sizes, races and persuasions right across USA looking for someone to share some naughty time with. Most of our members are simply busy people with no time for a serious relationship and need a convenient way to find sexual satisfaction without the hassles that come with a relationship. Others are married people looking for some extra-marital excitement or couples seeking other couples for swinging fun. Everyone is welcome here, all we ask is that you are open and honest about your marital status to avoid any confusion.

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In our latest move to ensure we remain the leading sex contacts community we now give all female members unrestricted access 24-7 for free. All women who register (or are already registered) will be able to send and receive unlimited messages and photos whenever they like completely unrestricted. Just our little gift to the hundereds of horny guys signing up every day looking for women in Oro Valley to fuck. It doesn't get much better than that.

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Callisandra, 47 from Oro Valley, Arizona

I'm looking for a big, buff and muscular man that I can wrap my hot wet body around and proclaim our pleasure together. Must have a sense of humor and enjoy the little happy things of life. Willing to be adventurous and try new exotic delights. Contact me soon.

Becky, 29 from Boulder, CO

I'm 29 single no kids just looking for some fun.

Shotsie, 57 from Norristown, PA

Would I be worth your time? I've had a lot of rejection on this site and just want to know if I'm doing something wrong or is there something wrong with the way I look.

Jean, 53 from Willowbrook, Houston, TX

Petite, athletic NW Houston suburban natural blond prefers Tall,Trim,Clean-Shaved and very Handsome Boy-Toys (under 40) who appreciate a" very smooth" operator....I do not respond to crudes ...so please show some class, w/ your recent photos & best way to make contact. If you are the impatient-type, no thank you.... I'm in no hurry ....enjoying a longterm relationship and just want a little spice w/ a goodlooking FWB & No Strings......real simple

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