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My Bed or Yours is a website dedicated to connecting people like you for adult encounters, affairs and naughty online chat. We make it easy to find local people who are looking to meet other adults for no strings fun in a safe, discreet environment. Registration is free and instant so you could be chatting to horny singles, local swingers or even bored housewives within minutes. You could even be having sex with someone new by tonight if you register now.

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They say there's too much sex on the Internet, and we agree. You shouldn't be having sex on the Internet: Your bed, shower, kitchen table, the neighbours garden are all far far better places. There is one good thing about the web and this site in particular - We help you find someone else to enjoy it with. We have a whole stack of men and women who have signed up with the intention of looking for sex (or adult dating if you prefer). So quit looking for porn and get some for real.

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Jose, 20 from Monongahela, PA

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B, 46 from Otsego, Minnesota

Playful female when relaxed and treated very well. I can be shy at first however, once you have let me know how desirable I am to you.....I may be the bold woman telling you what I need or want! Wants to be spoiled and I am willing to come to you as you want me then make it happen! * Have the flexibility to be that erotic encounter so bring me to you!* I am putty in your hands and you are the craftsman. I love sex. I love watching a man stroke himself and I enjoy your cum...

Renee, 46 from Northeast Raleigh, Raleigh, NC

Hi! I'm a happy, spontaneously, professional woman looking for a professional man for a discrete relationship. I'm looking for some excitement and mind blowing sex from someone who knows his way around the female body. A good friend with benefits would be ideal.

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