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Constantine, 70 from Santa Rosa, CA

Cute and cuddly down to earth senior who's compassionate, affectionate with a sense of humor. I'm a vegetarian who's into creative cooking. I'm an animal nature lover and a retired professional artist who worked for a major motion picture studio. I enjoy travel, dancing and musical theater. I have a classic sports car which I like to take out and explore this beautiful Sonoma County. I would like the company of someone from the opposite sex for some good times on the road.

Angie, 34 from Paonia, Colorado

I am looking for couples and single people that would wanna experiance with bondage and use whips and other pleasurable things with me i am a bigger girl so hoping that doesnt bother anyone.

Londont, 42 from Henryetta, OK

Looking for some discreet dirty fun!!

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