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Age: 64 (Aquarius) Location: Asheville, North Carolina, United States Height: 5'6" (168cm) Weigh: 170 My Limits are: Whatever Excites Me Status: Attached Female seeking Males Gender: Female Ethnicity: Caucasian (white) Smoking Habits: Never Preferences: I am looking for an intellectual/physical connection that is somewhat romantic, but certainly exciting. The idea of a special, long term connection is appealing but for that to happen I will need to have a sense of who you really are as a man because it's the closeness and communication felt in a connection that heightens sexuality. This means that you know how to express...

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